I’ll show you how to make your wife want you again by becoming a version 2.0 of yourself. Women respond to the energy you bring into the relationship. Below is a video with examples from the TV show “Vikings” to illustrate the kind of energy your wife can’t resist.
Focus On Causes, Not Symptoms
Every day, I speak to men in a desperate spot.
They sincerely want to save their failing marriage, but everything they do seems to backfire.
I know how easy it is to hyper-focus on everything that’s “wrong” in your relationship.
You’ll assume what’s “wrong” is preventing your marriage from turning around.
The problem with this approach is you’re trying to resolve symptoms, not causes.
- Lack of affection/no sex
- Poor communication
- Blaming attachment styles
- Love language frustrations
- Emotional coldness/withdrawal
- Her inability to be respectful or do self-improvement
The list above is symptoms, not root causes.
I say it all the time, “Love covers a multitude of sins”.
When your wife feels attracted to you, she overlooks the annoyances (and so do you).
The level of personal happiness and fulfillment you feel outside of marriage determines how you’ll eventually feel inside the marriage.
The degree to which you can create an amazing life without your wife determines the degree to which you can create one with her.
If you’re not emotionally secure enough to let her go, you’re not emotionally secure enough to have her.
These are the kinds of insecurities and root causes that cripple a relationship.
How To Make Your Wife Want You Again If She Wants Space
If your wife wants space, that means she doesn’t want to manage your needs for you.
She’s tired.
She wants to feel a SPARK when she’s around you, not obligation.
Watch my video below to see how a woman’s feelings change when her man gets his spark back.
One of the most effective ways to attract a woman is to let her go.
She wants to have the freedom to CHOOSE you.
How do you give her that freedom?
By letting her have the option to NOT choose you.
A man without an inspiring life mission will see his wife as his source of happiness.
She becomes his purpose for living.
You can’t let her go if you can’t imagine living an amazing life without her.
I know this seems backwards.
You probably think your inability to live an amazing life without her is proof of your love for her.
But it’s the opposite for her.
Your partner is not wired to be responsible for her happiness AND yours.
A huge burden is lifted off her shoulders when you have a life that’s so energizing that your spark, charisma, excitement, joy, and inspiration are full regardless of what she does.
How A Viking Reattracted His Lover
In the video, I point out how Rollo wallows in his self-pity, victim mindset, and lack of purpose.
These behaviours make Siggy lose her attraction for him.
Rolo blames his brother, his ex-lover, the gods’, and everyone else for his life.
For a time, he tries to demand respect and love from others.
This quickly makes his situation worse.
I realize this story is made up, but it mirrors what I see with men I work with.
Again and again, I’ve seen my client’s wife circle back after he gets clear, excited, and motivated by his positive future to the point that he lovingly lets her go.
These men grew until they:
- No longer resisted the divorce process.
- No longer needed to “be right”.
- No longer needed her mood be different for him to be ok.
- Could unshakably trust in his own ability to create the experiences he wanted.
- Accepted that she is on her own journey of personal growth and is progressing at her own pace.
- Stopped “fighting for the marriage.”
In the video, Siggy suddenly became re-attracted to Rollo because his spark brought energy to the relationship.
That’s the opposite of needing the relationship to give him energy.
She wanted to feel ALIVE.
Women move towards what makes her feel ALIVE.
You get to take the lead and demonstrate what feeling alive looks like.
Your partner is wired to respond to the energy you bring into your relationship.
Your vibe, tone, and look in our eyes do all the talking.
How To Get Your Wife Back If Your Spark Is Gone
Getting your wife back won’t happen until you get your spark back.
When I take a man through my Masculine Confidence Framework, I’m giving him the foundation for who HE is.
I give you clarity on HOW to be YOURSELF your relationship.
You’ll emerge from this framework with personalized, unflappable self-trust and inner security.
You read that right.
YOUR masculine frame is not going to consist of the same values or operating principles as the next guy.
My coaching challenges YOUR pain points, YOUR perspectives, and YOUR excuses.
An interesting study revealed how high testosterone doesn’t necessarily equal high female attraction.
What the researchers discovered was that low levels of cortisol (the stress hormone) had more of an appealing effect on women than high testosterone did.
You don’t need to be more “macho” for your wife to want you.
You need to be more comfortable in your own skin, more OK, and more relaxed to face what needs to be faced.
If you’re ready to have your brain rewired so you can make decisions quickly, know how to be with feminine emotions, and live as a man with an inspiring purpose, then let’s talk.
I promise you’ll gain clarity on how to make your wife want you again without being fake or manipulative.
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