If you’re exhausted from walking on eggshells around your wife, afraid to be disagreed with, or ridiculed by her, then it’s time to stop chasing her approval.
There’s an epidemic of men trying to please women these days.
They mean well.
They just want her to be happy.
But it’s creating the opposite.
What you need to understand is that there’s what women say they want and there’s what women actually respond to.
Those are two very different things.
When you trade your truth, your clarity, and your leadership for a woman’s approval, you destroy attraction.
You might gain her agreement, but you’ll lose her sexual desire.
You’re also robbing the world of your greatest gifts.
The world needs men who can make hard choices for the greater good, even if it makes them unpopular.
Stop Chasing Her Approval And Create What You Believe In
Your partner is an extension of Mother Nature.
Just like rain tests erosion and wind tests roof shingles, feminine energy tests your masculine frame.
Can you stay calm and listen when she’s illogical?
Can you stay rooted in your direction when she doubts or disagrees?
Can you keep your heart open when she pulls away?
She wants to see if YOU really believe in your cause by how you respond.
The hero’s journey of modern man is never to abandon your role as a CREATOR when people disagree or challenge you.
When you master that, you don’t chase validation; you become the validation.
How To Create What You Want
Every single thing man has created was not accepted by the world at first.
People feared light bulbs would burn down houses.
Pooping in toilets instead of the river sounded ludicrous.
But the creators of those things didn’t let people’s criticism sway them.
Edison was happy to make 10,000 light bulbs that didn’t work because he believed in his cause.
What’s your cause in the world?
What’s your cause in your marriage?
Your cause is what makes you magnetic to feminine and to life itself.
It governs what you remain connected to without the need to explain or defend your behaviours.
It gives purpose to your 10,000 failed attempts and lets the ridicule of others roll off your back.
Your wife becomes an honored guest in your amazing life because you stop chasing her approval to enjoy your cause.
If you’re ready to build that kind of unshakable masculine frame that stays in the mode of creator in the face of rejection, I’ll help you get started for free.
Schedule your free Masculine Confidence Call and get tailored guidance using the Masculine Confidence Framework™.
Or, check out my free eBook on how to restore passionate intimacy.
Stay grounded, brother.
Garrett Prettyman
Founder of the Masculine Confidence Framework™
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