Masculine Confidence Framework

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  • Why Your Wife Is Always Unhappy

    Why Your Wife Is Always Unhappy

    When your wife is always unhappy or chronically upset, it’s easy to feel like you’re failing as a husband or father. There are 5 things you can change right now to bring some joy back into your relationship. Just watch the video below or keep reading.

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    Unhappy Wife – 5 Necessities To Change

    Failed Expectations: A Source Of Unhappiness

    We like to imagine how life would be “in a perfect world”.

    “Perfect” includes a loving, sweet, affectionate, beautiful woman waiting for you at the door when you come home. 

    She’s wearing a sexy outfit and holding freshly baked cinnamon rolls. 

    Fun and laughter fill your evening with her!

    By night, things get steamy under the sheets.

    Sounds like a great fantasy! 

    Then there’s reality. 

    She…

    The girl you married has an imagined “perfect world, too”.

    Reality has dashed that dream.

    That’s why your wife is always unhappy.

    You’re a constant reminder that life isn’t the fairytale she hoped for.

    Men I coach learn a universal fact after a few sessions: Female energy is a flood without a strong masculine frame to direct it. 

    In other words, if her emotions are affecting how YOU feel, it means you’re driving in her lane, not your own lane of well-being and happiness.

    5 Things To Change If Your Wife Is Always Unhappy

    There are five necessities for happiness:

    1. Safety
    2. Variety
    3. Connection
    4. Contribution
    5. Growth  

    If both you and your wife are always unhappy, you’re in a stalemate.

    Somebody has to lead by example so the other can follow.

    Feminine is wired to be a responder.

    Masculine is wired to be an initiator.

    A conversation, date night, or new house can’t erase what it’s like to BE around you.

    When you start to BE different, your wife starts to respond differently.

    You cannot “give” your wife safety… but you can BE safe.

    You cannot “give” your wife connection… but you can BE connecting. 

    In other words, you provide these things by BEING them. 

    Explaining, demanding, and arguing about them is not BEING them.

    Your wife gets to enjoy the ride as you solidify an amazing, inspiring, deeply connecting life for yourself – one that changes your attitude.  

    And the cool part is, you get to enjoy this life regardless of how she responds.

    Even if your wife is always unhappy, it’s not your responsibility to make her happy… BUT, you can be a man who invites her to a better place. 

    Dr. Danielle Dowling drives this principle home in the article, “You Are Not Responsible for Other People’s Happiness“.

    If you need your wife to be happy so you can be happy, you are co-dependent on her.

    That’s a hard clash with what Hollywood shows us in movies.

    Happiness by example is the ONLY way to light the path forward for your wife to follow.

    Build an amazing life that makes you happy no matter what she does.

    Feeling unsure of how to be a confident, direct, emotional lighthouse if your wife is always unhappy?

    I got you.

  • What To Do If Your Wife Never Wants Sex

    What To Do If Your Wife Never Wants Sex

    If your wife never wants sex, there is an attraction problem, not a performance problem. Sure, hormones and life stages can have an effect, but your wife is a sexual person when she feels attraction. You’re about to read two stories. They will help you understand how attraction works in a long-term relationship.

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    Emergency Video For Husbands Not Having Intimate Sex

    Bass, Sunshine, Mosquitoes, and Sex…

    A fly just flew in through my front door.

    There’s a rainstorm brewing outside.

    Flies are extra clingy in this weather, especially this one.

    It’s landed on my arm and wiggled into my hair several times.

    It won’t leave me alone.

    I want to kill it.

    I feel my whole body closing up as I get angry.

    It’s buzzing on my head, and I’m ready for war.

    If your wife never wants sex, don’t be a fly.

    Your horniness can feel annoying when it’s buzzing all over her, trying to “get some”.

    Her body closes, and she can’t get aroused.

    A mature man understands that his horniness is his to manage.

    Your horniness (along with your emotions) are not your wife’s responsibility to take care of.

    Don’t agree?

    You can have your own opinion.

    You might say, “It’s a wife’s responsibility to take care of her husband’s sexual needs”.

    Keep that belief, watch intimacy dry up, or keep reading.

    Don’t Be A Mosquitoe If Your Wife Never Wants Sex

    We talked about flies.

    Now, let’s talk about mosquitoes.

    I think you know where this is going, lol.

    Here’s the story…

    Years back, I hiked to a remote lake before sunrise.

    I planned to bass fish from shore… cast a few lines in, take a swim, and soak up some sun.

    The sun rose, and the bass started biting!

    Then something else started biting.

    Mosquitoes.

    Millions of them.

    I tried to cover up every inch of my body. 

    My bare hand on the reel got slaughtered.

    Did I want to rip my shirt off and go for a swim?

    Hell no!

    The sun was out and everything.

    But not a shred of me wanted my skin exposed to those blood-sucking little bastards.

    Back to your wife never wanting sex… are you poking her like a mosquito, wondering why she keeps her skin covered?

    Your wife always has the proper juices to desire physical intimacy with you.

    But, when you pelter her with your needs, you’re shooting your own foot.

    • The need to be right
    • The need to get off
    • The need to know why
    • The need to be chosen
    • The need to have her get clear

    These needs feel like a thousand mosquitoes under the sheets.

    Any wonder her body isn’t responding to your touch?

    How To Be A Man Your Wife Can’t Get Enough Of

    Seduction tactics and advice for attracting women for dates will not work on your wife!

    There is a proven process for being the kind of man who is attractive in a long-term relationship vs dating. 

    It’s 14 steps of deep masculine development.

    You go from being a nice guy to being a confident husband.

    You become unapologetic about your sexuality and how to manage your own needs.

    Be amazed at how your wife changes when you remove the flies and mosquitoes!

    But it’s not just about acting differently around her; it’s about changing your relationship with your needs.

    The inside work is what matters most.

    No mask or faking it will fool your wife of many years.