I know you’re a great provider and all-around good guy….but, your wife isn’t impressed. In fact, she might even be asking for space or ready to file for divorce. I’ll introduce you to a former client and share how he saved his marriage. Many men have thought, “I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me?” But few have realized that being “good” isn’t what attracts her.
If you value family, hard work, integrity, being a handyman, honesty, or loyalty, then we’re cut from the same cloth.
If you lean towards being easy-going, non-confrontational, conflict-avoidant, or self-sacrificing, then we’re pretty much blood brothers.
“Camp Good Guy” – Where Relationships Go To Die
I’m a seasoned veteran at “Camp Good Guy”.
This is a camp where every man thinks being good separates him from the assholes.
Maybe you don’t like how your dad was forceful with your mom.
Or you’re repulsed by how most men treat women.
Whatever the case, you decided to never become like THOSE men.
So you joined “Camp Good Guy”.
Makes sense.
Until your sex life is gone and you’re wondering what happened.
I’ve lived at “Camp Good Guy” long enough to tell you how life goes in this camp.
You’ll marry a woman who’s your opposite.
You’ll pour your soul into creating a life for her that you never had.
Over time, you’ll learn to tiptoe around her sensitivities and suppress your opinions to avoid conflict.
Secretly, you’ll compare what you provide to how she acts, and feel shorted.
At “Camp Good Guy”, men’s wives are lining up to leave the relationship.
These soon-to-be ex-husbands are hearing complaints like:
- You don’t stand up for me
- I don’t feel supported
- I don’t feel an emotional connection with you
- I love you, but I don’t feel in love with you
- You make me feel stupid and invalidate my feelings
How A Man Moved Out Of “Camp Good Guy” And Saved His Marriage
Meet Gavin.
Gavin is a client who joined the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course a year and a half ago.
Gavin’s marriage was on the verge of falling apart
He was terrified to breathe, fearing the axe would fall and his wife would file for divorce.
Just like you and I, Gavin was thinking, “I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me?”
He feared she might be having an affair.
Through the course, Gavin learned to drop his unspoken expectations and grievances toward his wife.
He learned how to be secure in himself, how to live his values, have a spine, and be direct while still showing presence and care for his wife’s feelings.
Gavin didn’t become mean.
The opposite of the “good guy” isn’t a tyrant.
It’s about having self-worth and not giving with strings attached.
This new, mature version of Gavin left his wife with a choice.
She could choose to walk away from an amazing man, or she could join him in a more mature way of interacting.
She chose to surrender to his leadership and match his level of love and respect.
Over the last year and a half, Gavin’s marriage has been the most intimate, connected, respectful, and loving it has ever been.
Just like you, Gavin read a similar email about the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course.
Gavin decided to get off the fence and join.
His testimony today is that he would have lost his marriage if he hadn’t joined our course.
I encourage you to check out the course or have a private conversation with me.
I promise you’ll have no regrets learning how to be a more confident, secure man.
At some point, each of us has thought, “I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me?”
We’re in the trenches together learning to let go of our win-lose mindsets and give from abundance, not needy expectations.
I’m ready to welcome you into this new way of living with open arms.