Small dick syndrome is the immature version of masculinity. This article provides 53 traits of a mature masculine man. The video below uses some movie scenes to provide examples. Being more masculine isn’t something we have to force. Masculinity is naturally forged in men when we choose the high road when faced with pain and when we resolve the false core beliefs we have about ourselves.
A while back, a man reached out to me after watching one of my videos. He thought it was pathetic that I teach men how to be masculine but don’t include things in my videos like cars, golf or sports. There’s something this man hasn’t learned yet. Although many masculine men do things like sports, fishing, or golf, doing those things won’t make you masculine. Women have a unique gift called a 6th sense. This means she can smell “small dick” syndrome a mile away even if we’re wearing a Packers jersey in a lifted 4×4 blasting through a mud hole.
What Small Dick Syndrome Looks Like
Our cock can be the size of a baseball bat and we still can have “small dick” energy.
We’re exuding “small dick” energy where we’re…
- Easily triggered, then act on that trigger
- Always need to “be right”
- Hold other people accountable for our happiness
- Raise our voice and try to defend ourselves when questioned
- Always have an excuse for why we’re innocent
- Blame other people for our misery/lack of success
- Have to put others in their place to feel a sense of status or power
- Take other people’s actions as a personal threat
- Get jealous or take it personal when our wife finds other guys attractive (or men find her attractive)
- Resort to physical force to “make” people respect us
- Seek revenge and go tit for tat when others “do us wrong”
Small dick syndrome is hard to spot in ourselves because it FEELS like the opposite.
- We FEEL like we’re being assertive when we’re really being reactive
- We FEEL like we’re being confident when we’re really being stubborn
- We FEEL like we’re standing up for our wife when we’re really acting on jealousy or insecurity about our desirability
Needless to say, acting on feelings won’t create a strong masculine vibe.
What A Mature Masculine Man Looks Like
A mature masculine man dances to the beat of his own drum and isn’t bothered by what others say or do. He has a big grin on his face, and has bigger fish to fry than to be caught up with trivial moods or comments his wife might make. The list below is not something you need to learn. You were born with these masculine traits already hardwired to emerge as an adult. What happens is we can develop insecurities, mental narratives, and deeply held core beliefs during times of suffering that PREVENT us from choosing the high road and being the masculine man we’re naturally good at.
The 53 Traits Of A Masculine Man:
- Clear
- Calm
- Direct
- Non-reactive
- Capable of danger, but controls it
- Steady
- Responds, but on his own time
- Plays the long game
- Is self-reliant
- Can’t be emotionally swayed by others
- Powerful
- Stable
- Discerning
- Confident
- Visionary
- Wise
- Purposeful
- Driven
- Physical
- Courageous
- Honorable
- Decisive
- Protective
- Assertive
- Focused
- Consistent
- Embraces Death
- Knowledgeable
- World-Wise
- Mysterious
- Intellectual
- Truth Seeking
- Mystic
- Insightful
- Detached from others’ reactions
- Engineering
- Sees probable outcomes
- Vivid life force
- Sensitive to the outside environment
- Embodies pleasure without shame
- Sensual
- Compassionate
- Empathetic
- Creates connection
- Reads people
- Feel’s other’s pain
- Sees potential
- Lives from the heart
- Is present
- Trusts intention over outcome
- Creates, invents, and innovates what he wants
- Is on a mission
- Isn’t urgent
Why Small Dick Syndrome Ruins Marriages
Every romantic relationship (regardless of gender) requires one person who is in the masculine spectrum and one who is in the feminine spectrum. Our wife is incapable of feeling soft, affectionate, nurturing, receptive, submissive, or sexually turned on when we step out of our masculine energy.
How You Can Resolve “Small Dick” Energy
My YouTube critic was correct. Fast cars and golf won’t be on our agenda as we develop your masculinity. When I teach you my masculine confidence framework, I help you cut the blue wire to your triggers and insecurities. I ask you questions so you can see the core beliefs that make you a slave to your emotions. I help you create a frame you would be willing to take a bullet for. Book a call using my “Get Grounded Now” form if you want to talk to me directly. I promise the call will improve your entire week.
Be grounded brother,
Garrett Prettyman