If your wife never wants sex, there is an attraction problem, not a performance problem. Sure, hormones and life stages can have an effect, but your wife is a sexual person when she feels attraction. You’re about to read two stories. They will help you understand how attraction works in a long-term relationship.
Bass, Sunshine, Mosquitoes, and Sex…
A fly just flew in through my front door.
There’s a rainstorm brewing outside.
Flies are extra clingy in this weather, especially this one.
It’s landed on my arm and wiggled into my hair several times.
It won’t leave me alone.
I want to kill it.
I feel my whole body closing up as I get angry.
It’s buzzing on my head, and I’m ready for war.
If your wife never wants sex, don’t be a fly.
Your horniness can feel annoying when it’s buzzing all over her, trying to “get some”.
Her body closes, and she can’t get aroused.
A mature man understands that his horniness is his to manage.
Your horniness (along with your emotions) are not your wife’s responsibility to take care of.
Don’t agree?
You can have your own opinion.
You might say, “It’s a wife’s responsibility to take care of her husband’s sexual needs”.
Keep that belief, watch intimacy dry up, or keep reading.
Don’t Be A Mosquitoe If Your Wife Never Wants Sex
We talked about flies.
Now, let’s talk about mosquitoes.
I think you know where this is going, lol.
Here’s the story…
Years back, I hiked to a remote lake before sunrise.
I planned to bass fish from shore… cast a few lines in, take a swim, and soak up some sun.
The sun rose, and the bass started biting!
Then something else started biting.
Mosquitoes.
Millions of them.
I tried to cover up every inch of my body.
My bare hand on the reel got slaughtered.
Did I want to rip my shirt off and go for a swim?
Hell no!
The sun was out and everything.
But not a shred of me wanted my skin exposed to those blood-sucking little bastards.
Back to your wife never wanting sex… are you poking her like a mosquito, wondering why she keeps her skin covered?
Your wife always has the proper juices to desire physical intimacy with you.
But, when you pelter her with your needs, you’re shooting your own foot.
- The need to be right
- The need to get off
- The need to know why
- The need to be chosen
- The need to have her get clear
These needs feel like a thousand mosquitoes under the sheets.
Any wonder her body isn’t responding to your touch?
How To Be A Man Your Wife Can’t Get Enough Of
Seduction tactics and advice for attracting women for dates will not work on your wife!
There is a proven process for being the kind of man who is attractive in a long-term relationship vs dating.
It’s 14 steps of deep masculine development.
You go from being a nice guy to being a confident husband.
You become unapologetic about your sexuality and how to manage your own needs.
Be amazed at how your wife changes when you remove the flies and mosquitoes!
But it’s not just about acting differently around her; it’s about changing your relationship with your needs.
The inside work is what matters most.
No mask or faking it will fool your wife of many years.