This news is hot off the press. This week, two of my clients found themselves in similar situations they never saw coming. My clients re-attracted their wife who even two weeks ago, wanted out of the relationship. I tell their story below of how their runaway ladies came running back.
If You Love Her, Let Her Go
There’s a milestone men I work with usually reach.
The husband finally drops his expectations for his wife to make him happy.
- He would like her to love him, but he’s cool if she’s not up for it.
- He wants a sweet and affectionate partner, but he won’t try to change her if she isn’t.
- He would like her to be married to him, but he’s not going to hold the door shut if she wants out.
When a man reaches this stage, his wife tends to second-guess her choice to leave the relationship.
Both of my clients had partners who were emotionally cold and adamant about ending the relationship a few weeks ago.
For months, these guys chased their lover trying to get her to choose him.
Today, they’re being chased by her.
Neither of these guys had been trying to save their relationship recently (and that’s the secret).
When these men first started coaching with me, they were hell-bent on saving their relationship.
During our first few weeks together, we focused 100% on strengthening their masculine operating principles so they could be strong enough to let their partner go out of love and self-respect.
Over and over I’ve seen women circle back when the man demonstrates this much self-security and love by setting her FREE.
Letting go of a woman includes letting go of all the stuff we’ve been holding against her.
These guys also learned to let go of the neediness, fear, desperation, and anxiety that had driven them to hang onto their relationships with a death grip.
The truth we have to reckon with is that true love does not possess, it sets free.
In the story of the fisherman eating fish, “because he loved fish”, we can clearly see how his actions were no doubt NOT seen as “love” for the fish he caught and ate.
We might think because our heartaches that we truly love our wife when in fact it’s just “fish love”.
My Clients Re-Attracted Their Wife Because Leadership Is Attractive
Part of having a strong masculine core is being able to LEAD.
Leading means going first.
Want a happy wife? Show her how to be happy by making choices for your happiness.
What about a respectful wife? Show her how to be respectful by respecting her feelings and opinions.
Maybe you want a wife who chooses you? Let her go so she has choices.
Letting your wife go and then hiding in the bushes waiting for her return doesn’t work.
Both my clients were shocked when their partner wanted back into the relationship because they GENUINELY had let her go, moved on, and were actively creating NEW amazing lives without her.
The masculine confidence framework I teach provides a blueprint to gain massive self-confidence, a clear value system, and an inspiring mission worth living for.
Women are attracted to men who are bold leaders who fearlessly create the life they want!
As my clients discovered, your ex isn’t the only person who notices how attractive you’ve become when you’re secure enough to let her go.
Many times, other women come out of the woodwork when you’re a confident, secure man.
You go from having no women who want you to having several.
Not everyone has the means to commit to 1:1 coaching like these guys did.
That’s why we created the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course.
In the course, Mark Drezga & I teach the framework you need to regain your mojo and masculine leadership without breaking the bank.
My clients re-attracted their wife, I promise you’ll attract something you didn’t expect when you start living in the new frame the course teaches.
I’m a “Go big or go home” man.
If you share the same mindset, we can make something BIG happen together.
1:1 mentorship is the BIGGEST, most personalized, powerful, and heart-connecting way to learn this stuff.
Book a “Get Grounded Now” consultation if you would like to gain clarity about your next steps to improve your marriage through 1:1 coaching.
Be grounded brother,
Garrett Prettyman