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Sexless Marriage: 4 Signs She Won’t Change
How do you know whether your sexless marriage can change, or whether this may simply be who your wife is? Here are 4 behaviors to watch for after you’ve started doing your own work.
Sexless Marriage – 4 Signs She Won’t Change
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Can Your Sexless Marriage Actually Change?
Garrett Prettyman explains four behaviors that may indicate your wife is unwilling or unable to build a healthier relationship with you, even after you’ve started working on your own defensiveness, emotional reactions, appreciation, and ability to create connection.
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4 Signs She May Not Change
These behaviors become especially important after you’ve stopped waiting for your wife to change first and started taking responsibility for how you show up.
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1. Criticism
You’ve become less defensive about your intentions, but she continues criticizing you.
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2. Contempt
You’re showing appreciation and holding her in high regard, but she continues treating you with contempt.
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3. Defensiveness
You’re taking responsibility for yourself, but she continues blaming you for how she feels.
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4. Stonewalling
You’ve learned to manage your reactions, but she continues shutting you out or giving you the silent treatment.
The important distinction: These four signs don’t mean you should immediately decide your wife will never change. First get clear about how you’re showing up, what you’re creating, and whether you’ve become the kind of man capable of creating the relationship you want.
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