If you’ve been trying to get your walkaway wife back I have news for you. The test results are in (and it’s stamped with a big “F”). Seventy percent of divorces are initiated by women. I’m going to give a brief explanation of why your wife is ending your marriage so nonchalantly and why chasing her makes matters worse. I teach men how to stop chasing women and start attracting the loving, attractive, happy, intimate, and fun relationship they want through personalized masculine confidence coaching.
The Divorce Bomb
Disbelief. Horror. Panic.
Those juices surge through a husband’s veins like acid upon hearing, “I’m going to leave you”.
We desperately want to know one thing…WHY?!!
We think if we know, “why” then we can fix it…
I know I tried to console myself with the thought, “I swooned her heart once before, I can do it again!”
So we pull out all the stops.
We flood her with everything we did in the beginning when we were deeply in love, connected, and passionate.
Little did he know, that was a BIG mistake.
Why Your Wife Is Ready To Walkaway
24 months ago.
That’s about how long ago she, “gave up” and started imagining life without you.
Giving up felt like a relief from needing you to be different.
She opened herself up to get her needs met outside the marriage.
Work, friends, activities, weekend getaways, counseling… those became her new source of intimacy.
You, on the other hand, were oblivious while focused on surviving the daily grind.
>>>Fast forward to now.
She has already grieved the loss of the marriage.
You feel like an ex-boyfriend to her.
She’s accepted that it’s over.
You, however, are NOWHERE near that point.
Why You Need To STOP Chasing Her
I’ve worked with hundreds of men whose wives had one foot out the door.
I’ve never seen a wife return because he smothered her with his unbound love.
In this critical moment of marriage collapse, nearly all instincts of the immature male brain push her away (if acted on).
You see, all her reasons for wanting to leave you are tied to a common female experience.
An experience that has less to do with you than she says.
Michele Weiner-Davis explains it perfectly in her article “The Walkaway Wife Syndrom”
Right now, your wife genuinely thinks she has tried everything in her power to help you “wake up” and give her the deep emotional connection and sense of belonging she craves.
She did this by following her immature female instincts of arguing, complaining, giving obligation sex, and taking on more responsibilities than she could handle.
Looking at those behaviors, we can clearly see they’re not attractive.
But for your wife, being that way felt like desperate pleas for love.
The Attractiveness Of Letting Go
Have you ever tried to catch a dog by chasing it?
I have.
Good luck!
Interestingly, when you BACK AWAY the dog gets very curious about what you’re up to.
Run away from a dog and she will be hot on your heels.
I know what you’re thinking.
“My wife is complaining that I haven’t been there for her. I need to close the gap, not move away!”
Man-to-man lesson 101: Never take a woman’s words as a factual repair manual. She is telling what she feels like, not what you should do about it.
Your wife has conceived a hardened-steel version of you in her head.
Only one thing melts that version of you from her brain: Time.
Whenever she sees your face she’s reminded of her mental version of you.
In time, experiencing a new version of you will give her new feelings about you.
You need to give time and space for the old version to fade in her memory.
Your #1 goal right now is to stop chasing her and start making bold, scary movements towards creating an amazing life you love.
Women act on their own internal pressure.
Just hearing your voice and seeing your face right now is external pressure.
ONLY NON-REACTIVE, PRESENT, SAFE ENERGY COMING FROM YOU CAN BUILD HER INTERNAL PRESSURE.
A man can only be a self-sustaining source of this energy when he develops it in the total absence of feminine support.
That’s what I teach men how to do.
Stop chasing her for your sense of well-being, success, and honor.
Your value must no longer be attached to your wife’s validation.
What You Need To Do Next If You Have A Walkaway Wife
Nothing is more effective in creating lasting change than man-to-man mentorship.
I challenge your thinking and give you new mindsets that open a deeper, authentic, passionate version of you.
You’ll learn how to put fuel in your tank without siphoning from hers.
I rip the condom of avoidance and confusion off your manhood so your masculine energy penetrates chaos and breeds the life you want.
We should talk. Set aside 60 minutes for a free consultation that could change your life. Book A “Get Grounded Now” Call I promise you won’t regret it.
Much love brother,
Garrett Prettyman
Schedule your free Masculine Confidence Call and get tailored guidance using the Masculine Confidence Framework™.
Or, check out my free eBook on how to restore passionate intimacy.
Stay grounded, brother.
Garrett Prettyman
Founder of the Masculine Confidence Framework™
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