This article is for the “good” husband who wants to turn his marriage around. I’ll introduce you to a former client and share how he saved his marriage. Many men have thought, I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me? But few have realized being “good” isn’t what attracts her.
If you value family, hard work, integrity, being a handyman, honesty, or loyalty then we’re cut from the same cloth.
If you lean towards being easy-going, non-confrontational, conflict-avoidant, or self-sacrificing, then we’re pretty much blood brothers.
“Camp Good Guy” – Where Wives Exit Relationships
I’m a seasoned veteran at “Camp Good Guy”.
We men chose this camp, thinking being a good guy is desirable.
Perhaps we had a dad who was brute towards our mom or we were repulsed by how assholes treat women.
Whatever the case, we decided to never become like THOSE men.
I’ve lived at “Camp Good Guy” long enough to tell you how life goes in this camp.
We usually marry a woman who’s the opposite of us.
We pour our soul into creating a life for her we never had.
Over time, we learn to tiptoe around her sensitivities and suppress our opinions to avoid conflict.
We secretly compare what we provide to how our wife acts towards us and feel ripped off that we aren’t getting the respect, love, or affection we deserve from her.
At “Camp Good Guy”, men’s wives are lining up to leave the relationship.
These soon-to-be ex-husbands are hearing complaints like:
- You don’t stand up for me
- I don’t feel supported
- I don’t feel an emotional connection with you
- I love you but I don’t feel in love with you
- You make me feel stupid and invalidate my feelings
How A Man Moved Out Of “Camp Good Guy” And Saved His Marriage
Meet Gavin.
Gavin is a client who joined the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course a year and a half ago.
Gavin’s marriage was on the verge of falling apart
He was terrified to breathe, fearing the axe would fall and his wife would file for divorce.
Just like you and I, Gavin was thinking, “I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me?”
Through the course, Gavin learned to drop his unspoken expectations and grievances toward his wife.
He learned how to be secure in himself, how to live his values, have a spine, and be direct while still showing presence and care for his wife’s feelings.
This new version 2.0 of Gavin left his wife with a choice.
She could choose to walk away from an amazing man or she could join him in a more mature way of interacting.
She chose to surrender to his leadership and match his level of love and respect.
Over the last year and a half, Gavin’s marriage has been the most intimate, connected, respectful, and loving it has ever been.
Just like you, Gavin read a similar email about the Vital Formula To Masculine Confidence Course.
Gavin decided to get off the fence and join.
His testimony today is that he would have lost his marriage if he hadn’t joined our course.
I encourage you to check out the course or book a Get Grounded Now Call so you can gain the benefits Gavin did.
I promise you’ll have no regrets.
You’ll find our groups are filled with recovering “good guys”.
At some point, each of us has thought, “I’m a good guy, why doesn’t my wife want me?”
We’re in the trenches together learning to let go of our win-lose mindsets and give from abundance, not needy expectations.
We’re ready to welcome you into the tribe with open arms.
Be strong brother,
Garrett Prettyman
Schedule your free Masculine Confidence Call and get tailored guidance using the Masculine Confidence Framework™.
Or, check out my free eBook on how to restore passionate intimacy.
Stay grounded, brother.
Garrett Prettyman
Founder of the Masculine Confidence Framework™
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