I’m going to tell you a true story about a husband in a crappy marriage. How the story ends is positive. Not by chance. This man was very deliberate in his commitment to positive change. He attained the happiness, freedom, and relaxed vibe needed to have attractive masculine confidence.
What Marriage Is Like Without Masculine Confidence
It was 1:00 Am.
Josh couldn’t sleep.
His wife was working a graveyard shift.
He was alone in bed.
Something she said before she left for work really bothered him.
“I don’t know if I want to be married anymore. I just need some space”.
What did she mean??
Josh loved his wife and couldn’t imagine life without her.
He had always done his best to not pressure her with his views or opinions.
She was a very strong, independent woman.
For the most part, he let her do what she wanted.
Josh wanted to her happy and free.
Sometimes he didn’t like what she did though…
He would cleverly slip in snide comments when she took trips without him… Or give her a “That was stupid” look when she messed up.
He felt a little bad to admit it, but he could get really mopey if she spent lots of time with friends or didn’t give him sex.
Josh had worked tirelessly for years to give her a good life.
- He prioritized her pleasure, ensuring she orgasmed first.
- He was reliable and consistent in his actions.
- He sacrificed time with friends, leisure activities, and solo adventures to prioritize their time
And this is what he got in return??
Josh never bought himself anything nice.
Instead, he secretly hoped for his wife to do things to show him he mattered.
Getting him snacks, a new shirt, renting a movie, being in nature or planning a fun trip were the love languages he felt she should do for him.
The truth was, over the last few years, Josh only looked to his wife to experience these things.
Isn’t that what a wife is for?
When his secret hopes were not met by her, he felt ignored.
Here Josh was… Spending the wee hours of the morning watching YouTube videos about “what to do when your wife wants space”.
He found one guy who seemed to have solid advice.
Josh found his website and clicked the link to download an eBook.
Yikes!
The eBook cost $7.99.
Screw that!
Josh went back to watching free self-help YouTube videos.
Then another hour slipped by as he found some porn.
The next morning, Josh woke up exhausted from little sleep.
he left for work.
Nothing changed in his life.
In the video below, I’ll give more perspective on why you as the man need to start investing in yourself before she can.
Why is it we men want a priceless marriage but struggle to value ourselves a mere $7.99?
Waiting for your wife to improve is a never-ending wait.
Masculine Confidence Means Going First
Working on our own lack of self-worth, low self-esteem, and dependency on others for joy and love are key areas to develop.
Without confidence, we’re a ship with no rudder.
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How Josh Changed Everything
Josh’s pain in his marriage got so bad he finally broke down and spent $7.99 on himself.
This was a turning point.
Josh gave himself permission to put himself and his own development 1st.
Making himself a priority felt good!
Soon he did something he never thought he would do: He hired a life coach.
It cost over $10k.
His business saw a 30% boost in profits as a result.
Josh continued to invest in himself, spending over $50k in personal development over the next 24 months.
He showed up consistently to the coaching sessions.
He followed through on the homework.
Josh rewired his brain.
His results of investing in himself were off the charts.
With a new mindset toward life, a community of men who had his back, and balls of brass he boldly faced his fears.
- His property portfolio doubled.
- His business brought in over a million in sales.
- He manifested a job that covered all his coaching investments and an additional $50k as a down payment on his dream house.
His relationship with women became sensual, deep, and meaningful.
And most importantly, Josh’s sense of well-being and love for life flowed out for others to enjoy with him
Josh has to pinch himself each morning when he looks out the window.
He’s actually living his dream life TODAY!
Sound too good to be true?
Well, it’s a true story, so you can’t contest it.
Your Next Step
Nothing outside Josh changed. He still lived on the same planet. What changed is Josh became a confident husband, brother, employer, son, and leader.
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Much love brother,
Garrett Prettyman
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Stay grounded, brother.
Garrett Prettyman
Founder of the Masculine Confidence Framework™
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