Do you hesitate to answer probing questions from your wife or girlfriend? Then listen up! Questions like, “Is Sex All You Think About??” don’t have to be a landmine. Keep reading to learn how to defuse your partner’s booby trap questions.
“Is Sex All You Think About?”
Make no apology for being male!
Reflect on the history of humanity spanning thousands of years.
Since the beginning, women have been attracted towards, bred with, been lovesick for, and chased men being men.
Thanks to men’s insatiable drive for physical intimacy, the human race has not gone extinct yet.
When a woman says to me, “Is sex all you think about?” I smile and say, yup!
Men are supposed to feel opened, softened, ignited, drawn out, and inspired by sex.
Sex is the portal men gain emotional connection and bonding through.
This is how we’re supposed to be wired, there is nothing wrong with it!
Our Opposing Twins
Our personality splits into opposing versions when one part of us is expressed and the other is repressed.
Just as our mind will go unconscious if we endure to much pain, part of our personality goes unconscious if we sense it won’t be accepted.
Let this primal survival instinct play out over time, and symptoms like loneliness, depression, lack of motivation, and feelings of despair build up.
We can nip this process in the bud by doing one thing: Stop letting other people decide what is acceptable or unacceptable about you!
There’s a toxic mindset among a lot of men these days.
The mindset is that men in their natural form are chauvinistic, patriarchal pigs who need to change to be what women say they want us to be.
You’ll often hear me say, “There’s some things we get to know as men that are best to not share with women”.
The irony is the statement above is one of those things that doesn’t serve to share with women, lol.
We men with logical brains can foresee probable outcomes.
When our child wants to eat candy for lunch, they may not understand why we won’t let them.
Explaining, “because something tastes good, doesn’t mean it’s good for you” won’t resolve the child’s FEELINGS for candy.
There will be times when you’ll foresee fulfilling your wife’s wishes will cause a train wreck further down the track.
Since her perspectives are largely backed by feelings, it usually doesn’t serve to try to change her mind by exposing our logic.
Keep the logic to yourself, and simply offer her your curiosity and empathy.
Notice WHO is setting the “bar” for success in your life that you check yourself against.
That’s how to know if we’re suppressing part of our personality, verses staying mum on something that isn’t going to serve if exposed to a woman.
The “bar” is our behavior, value, or boundary WE hold ourselves to so we can enjoy feelings of integrity each time WE hold ourselves to it.
The “bar” is also the rules we know we must play by to create an amazing life that aligns with our deeper purpose and mission.
When we let other people set the bar, we’ll feel a need to alter ourselves, agree with their perspectives, or abandon our own internal compass for their compass.
Being A Man On A Feminine Planet
Women are a hurricane of emotions, ideas, creativity, and life.
Her feminine chaos doesn’t bring much to fruition until she encounters a strong framework.
Masculine is that framework.
Online influencer Teal Swan wrote a great article on masculine containment if you want more information on what that means.
Being a woman’s husband isn’t too far off from being her father.
Some women have chosen to reject this masculine frame and become her own man.
These masculine ladies won’t feel much sexual polarity with men who are strong, secure, clear-thinking, driven, or unapologetic because to be honest, she doesn’t need a man.
Sadly, just as when men become their own woman, it creates a persona riddled with angst, exhaustion, frustration, loneliness, and burnout.
We can’t force our wife to be less masculine, but we can be more masculine ourselves so she doesn’t feel the need to be.
How To Be A Secure Man When She Says, “Is Sex All You Think About?”
We can transform from being a guy who rattles off an 18-point logic list when a woman rolls her eyes to becoming a man of inner confidence and charisma, who wears a slight smirk even on rainy days.
To be a woman’s frame, we must first have our OWN frame.
That’s what I’m teaching men in my 1:1 Masculine Confidence Framework Coaching Package.
If you want to get your thinking cleared up, your insecurities resolved, and your fears addressed, then reach out for a free consultation!
Much Love,
Garrett Prettyman
Schedule your free Masculine Confidence Call and get tailored guidance using the Masculine Confidence Framework™.
Or, check out my free eBook on how to restore passionate intimacy.
Stay grounded, brother.
Garrett Prettyman
Founder of the Masculine Confidence Framework™
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