Maybe you’ve been watching videos and trying new things but your marriage isn’t turning around. This post takes the spotlight off the marriage so you can understand who a man must become before his marriage can change for the better.
Most men I work with are brilliant, hard-working guys.
Men who are good at making money, running a business, and competent at problem-solving.
But when they first reach out to me, they’re often frantic, panicking, uncertain, and desperate to fix their marriage.
Ironically, those very feelings are what sabotage relationships.
It makes sense if you think about it.
How we act when we’re needy, reactive, and jealous isn’t attractive.
But my clients who succeed in saving their marriages? They’re the ones who find their inner confidence, allowing their presence to feel unshakable.
You can SAY all the right things.
DO all the right things.
But if your presence feels needy or unsure, your wife’s heart will close.
All my clients who saved their marriage know this to be true: You can say and do all the wrong things…But if your presence is solid, clear, and unrattled, your wife will open her heart to you.
You’re attracted to the female form…the curves…the scent… that can’t be helped.
She can’t help but be attracted to the unrattled man.
So stop trying to talk your marriage back together.
Stop trying to do more to convince her of your value.
Relax into knowing you got this and have nothing to prove.
Get on with livin’ and let your presence be undivided and unshook around her.
Your Next Step If Your Marriage Isn’t Turning Around
If your wife can pull your strings and push your buttons, her attraction and respect will fade.
Confidence isn’t found by learning how to numb yourself.
That’s just being an emotional zombie.
Inner security isn’t about avoiding negative feelings (like anger or rejection).
Mature masculine strength is about breathing through strong feelings without letting them dictate your choices.
When you breathe through negative feelings, there is always clarity, strength, and calm on the other side.
Want to learn how to be unrattled?