Today, we’re going deeper into the 3 stages of detachment a woman goes through before she ends a relationship, and how to turn each around. If you don’t catch it early, you’ll find yourself blindsided when your wife says she needs space. And I’m not talking about the kind of “space” where she’s just tired tonight; I’m talking about when she’s considering divorce.
1. Emotional Detachment
This is the first stage many women go through before they start checking out of a relationship.
It’s also the easiest to miss.
Emotional detachment begins when she stops feeling seen, heard, or valued in the relationship.
Her emotional needs aren’t being met, and over time, her heart closes off.
This doesn’t happen overnight.
She used to share her thoughts, feelings, and worries with you.
But now? She keeps them to herself.
Bringing up the little things no longer happens because she’s already convinced herself you won’t understand.
At this stage, you might notice:
She’s less engaged in conversations.
She stops initiating affection or spending quality time.
She’s quick to get irritated over small things.
She begins focusing more on her friends, work, hobbies, or anything but you.
You can turn this around by learning how to connect with her heart instead of her head.
The best place to practice is inside yourself.
Notice whenever your brain wants to know WHY.
Asking WHY often pulls people into analysis.
Asking WHAT pulls people into their experience.
What does it feel like?
What does it sound like?
Answering from those “what” places is how you lead a heart-to-heart conversation.
Your wife’s love and affection is empowering, but when her commitment is unclear, it can feel like the rug got pulled out. This article will help you take control when your marriage is slipping away by helping you see that nothing done out of fear can create LONG-TERM closeness in a relationship.
The Airplane Of Uncertainty
Imagine you’re on an airplane.
30 minutes into the flight, the intercom comes on.
“Hello, this is your captain speaking. The weather is stormy today! We don’t know our current location or how much fuel we have. On behalf of AAA Airlines, we would like to thank you for choosing us to reach your final destination.”
Very few passengers would remain relaxed with this sort of announcement.
If a glance out the aircraft window revealed smoke from the left engine, fear could turn into panic.
When our wife’s commitment to the marriage becomes uncertain, we can become paralyzed with fear….And panic!
Fear is a deceptive thing.
Reactions from fear FEEL logical in the moment, but fear-based responses RARELY help a critical situation.
“Plane Crash Averted By Passenger Panic,”…said no newspaper title ever!
Here’s the twist.
You’re not a passenger on the “airplane of uncertainty”; you are the captain.
As captain, you can land the plane even if your wife has pulled the eject button.
Many guys I’ve coached found that after he “landed the plane”, his wife’s parachute dropped her back into his love life.
“Landing the plane” means no longer:
Demanding her love and loyalty
Thinking the “other guy” is a threat to getting what you want
Trying to convince her why you are the better choice
Wallowing in your agony
Chasing her for affection and time
Forcing her to be decisive and know what she wants
“Guy drama” comes from our inner little boy, not the mature man.
Little boys fall on the ground at the grocery store and cry for candy when their mommy won’t give it to them.
Little boys also whine, complain, and let their FEELINGS guide their actions.
Trust me, your wife craves a MAN, not a boy.
What To Do When Her Commitment Is Unclear
In the 25-minute video below, I cover 3 areas that will give you more clarity about how to show up as the MAN when your wife is uncertain of her love for you.
I would love for you to have MORE love, MORE attraction, and MORE intimacy in your life!
The season when those things are low can feel brutal.
But you can be confident, secure, and happy RIGHT NOW.
If you’ve read this far, then YOU are the kind of man who has the fortitude to make positive changes.
Your ability to remain unperturbed in your positive, loving, happy, and fun self when your wife’s commitment is unclear is the only path to evoking her desire to join you in being those things.
How do you gain this kind of rock-solid, attractive mojo?
Many men are rejected for sex without realizing how they are preventing the intimacy they crave. Dive into this article or watch the video below to discover why women are drawn to men who can face rejection with confidence.
Men Who Act Frustrated When Rejected For Sex Experience A Snowball Effect of Rejection
Rejection by your wife can be frustrating.
This frustration can push her further away, creating a never-ending cycle of more rejection.
When our sexual energy is pent-up, it can feel like a problem that needs an immediate solution.
Being wildly horny in itself isn’t the problem.
How we act when we feel urgent is what turns your wife off.
Although an orgasm seems like an obvious solution, anytime you act desperate, needy, demanding, or mopey, you are putting negative pressure on your wife.
Negative pressure is a HUGE libido killer for women.
Sexually frustrated men tend to use their own level of desire to determine if they should initiate intimacy.
This also leads to more rejection.
Our wife can sense if we are trying to make love because WE can’t handle our own instincts, or if we are initiating because SHE is ripe for engaging it.
Acting on our feelings with no awareness of her emotional state is a guaranteed path to rejection.
She Wants Intimacy With A Man Who Holds His Agency
I used to believe that my feelings were my wife’s job to take care of.
If I was hungry, she should feed me.
If I was horny, she should make love to me.
This mindset made me feel like a victim of her moods and dependent on her for my happiness.
Making others responsible for how we feel is a path to codependency, victimhood, and a sense of neediness.
A man who takes responsibility for his own feelings talks differently.
He won’t say, “You’re making me angry,” he will say, “I feel my anger”.
A man who plays the victim will say things like, “That person is making me feel disrespected”.
A man who owns his agency will say, “My thoughts about that person are making me feel disrespected”.
Men who hold their agency are attractive to women.
Your wife wants to feel that you can hold your emotions AND her emotions without losing your agency.
How To Stop Getting Rejected For Sex
Imagine there is a green light and a red light on every woman’s forehead.
If you try to initiate physical intimacy with your wife when the light is red, it will push her away.
My advice?
ONLY INITIATE WHEN HER LIGHT IS GREEN.
Nearly every guy I coach who is frustrated in the bedroom is initiating when she’s giving clear signals to stop.
We can’t turn her red light green by getting all cuddly and affectionate with her.
A woman’s desire for intimacy comes in seasons, and she can’t just flip a switch to turn it on.
There’s no use in getting upset with her season, just like there’s no use in getting upset if it’s summer or winter.
There is an irony to this.
When we are happy, inspired, successful, and fun without her giving us sex, the sooner her season changes.
Women are not attracted to horny, sexually frustrated men.
But they are attracted to sexy men!
So what’s the difference?
Horny, sexually frustrated men can’t handle discomfort.
Sexy men face discomfort.
Horny, sexually frustrated men act impulsively.
Sexy men act deliberately.
Many horny, sexually frustrated men think they need sex 3 or 5 times a day.
Here’s the truth.
When you have BETTER sex, you’ll crave sex less.
Better sex is enthusiastic, wild, connected, and erotic.
Before we can have better sex, we first need to build emotional intimacy with our partner.
Not taking things personally and tuning into her emotions to validate them is how she feels emotional intimacy.
In my coaching, I teach you how to THINK to feel empowered by things that used to drive you crazy.
Don’t believe this helps?
Right now, imagine biting into a freshly cut lemon… Imagine your teeth squeezing the tart juice out as it drips down your lips… Did your mouth start to water?
Your mouth is watering because of the THOUGHT you just fed in your mind.
Sexually frustrated men need to feed new thoughts!
Healing a broken heart after your wife walks away happens in stages. Men are affected by heartbreak differently than women, so the steps to heal are a little different. This article and the video below will help you take the right steps to feeling better.
The Pain Of Heartbreak
Loss of appetite.
Tears.
Inability to sleep.
Feeling like a used rag flushed down the toilet.
Nausea.
Shortness of breath.
What a man goes through when the woman he loves divorces him is no joke.
Healing a broken heart after your wife walks away is possible if you follow time-proven steps.
Why Should Healing A Broken Heart After Your Wife Walks Away Be The Focus?
When we’re suffering from the loss of our marriage, we men tend to hyper-focus on ONE thing…getting our wife back!
We think if we could get our wife back, all our suffering would end and the world would feel like a happy place again.
However, making our wife want to be with us is out of our control.
We will get stuck in grief for years if we focus on things we can’t control.
The other problem with focusing on getting our runaway wife back is it leaves us feeling like a powerless victim.
You know a man feels like a powerless victim when he…
Complains about his situation
Blames others for the choices he “had” to make
Defends why his pain is “different” from what other men face
Argues and raises his voice
Focuses on all the negative things that make his situation seem “unchangeable.”
Always brings up his ex in conversation to point out that she left him and why the relationship could’ve been fixed
Many songs have been written about men who pined for a woman who stopped loving him until he died.
Is that any way to live?
Misery puts a dark cloud over life itself.
Healing a broken heart after your wife walks away is 100% in our control, and that is why we must focus on it.
You know a man is staying focused on what’s 100% in his control when he…
Sees the cup as half full instead of half empty
Can clearly describe what his bright, amazing, love-filled future will look like
Stops acting urgent
No longer holds others responsible to change for his life to be amazing
Bravely makes BIG, BOLD choices to create what he wants (even if nobody else approves)
Doesn’t allow fear, loneliness, or desperation to dictate the choices he makes
Takes full responsibility for how he feels without holding others liable
4 Steps To Healing A Broken Heart After Your Wife Walks Away
1. Come to terms with your denial of reality.
During a marriage, it’s best if we focus on the positives of our partner. However, after divorce, it’s time to notice what was not positive about our wife. We can easily romanticize her, which perpetuates our suffering. Coming to terms with reality means accepting that she isn’t all the amazing things we thought she was. We need to believe that we deserve better. A self-respecting man will not throw himself at a woman who clearly does not love him. The reality we must accept is that she no longer loves us, and clinging to her prevents the love we want from coming into our lives.
2. Go alone in nature and unload all your anger.
We will not be able to heal if we try to suppress our emotions. Go out in nature (far away from people) and fully unload all your anger about the relationship ending. Feel the anger from your head to your toes. An emotion that isn’t fully experienced can fester for decades, keep us stuck, and lead to PTSD. You might find the anger shifts to grief, regret, or resentment. Whatever emerges, get it all out. The goal is to let our body naturally heal by progressing through a whole range of emotions.
3. Grab a journal and vent all your “if onlys” and all the things you wish you could have made your wife understand.
When our wife leaves us, our brain will stew and stew on it, analyzing every angle, desperate to find a fix. Mental exhaustion ensues. It leaves us dazed. We can hardly function at our normal capacity. Use your laptop or journal to unload everything in your brain. Write out all your “if onlys”, “what ifs”, and everything you want to explain to your ex. Do not send her any of your epiphanies! Our subconscious can’t tell if we’re using paper or her as a sounding board. Using paper (instead of her) provides relief as if she were there to listen & understand our perspective.
4. Let yourself grieve the loss
Letting go and grieving the loss of the relationship is the hardest part. Some call this stage “the lament.” A lament is to mourn what we lost, grieve what will never be, and let go of the story we’ve been clinging to. Hanging onto our suffering does not prove our love for her! I’ve found self-love meditations to be very healing during this stage, along with doing shadow work. It’s important to build a support system during this time, preferably with men who understand your pain and can empathize with how it feels.
Your Personal Guide To Heal A Broken Heart
Acceptance is the only path to having a meaningful, happy life, even when life hands us lemons.
Once we reach acceptance, we can look forward and create a new chapter that’s BETTER than the one we just closed.
This article reveals how to be irresistible to your wife by building erotic desire through seduction.
Seduction is not about picking up strange women.
Seduction is about the art of creating and maintaining feelings of positive emotional tension, including sexual tension.
Perhaps you have a fairytale version of love in your mind.
In this fairytale, your wife or girlfriend is magically affectionate, intimate, and sexual with you for 60 years… All because you’re such an easy-going, great guy!
This rarely happens.
Like it or not, seduction is a game.
Playing the game is NOT about being a slimy manipulator who tricks women into liking him.
Games are about having FUN.
If you’ve ever had sex, you are already a player in the game of seduction.
The OUTSIDE Game Of Seduction
Pickup artists use OUTSIDE game to meet and have sex with new women effectively.
Fancy clothes, nice cologne, a fancy watch… those are all OUTSIDE things.
These men know how to catch a woman’s eye.
The female mind loves the tease, temptation, emotions, and illusion of freedom that OUTSIDE game provides.
However, if you do not have INSIDE game, new women you seduce with OUTSIDE game will eventually break up with you.
As they get to know you, they realize it was all smoke and mirrors because everything was just an act to get into her pants.
The INSIDE Game Of Seduction
INSIDE game is all about the vibe your behaviors give off under pressure.
Your inner maturity, confidence, self-esteem, vulnerability, and masculine frame are part of your INSIDE game.
Without a rock-solid INSIDE game, your wife won’t feel safe opening her heart to you.
This article provides 53 traits of mature masculinity. The video below uses some movie scenes as examples. Being more masculine isn’t something you have to force. Masculinity is natural when you stop trying to make yourself different or better than other men and embrace the polar opposite of femininity.
53 Traits Of A Masculine Man
The other day, a man reached out to me after watching one of my videos.
He thought it was pathetic that I teach men how to be masculine, but don’t include things in my videos like cars, golf, or sports.
She’s not wired to feel attraction to the version of masculinity you’ve conjured up.
You don’t need to start yelling like your dad, but you do need to stop avoiding feelings.
The difference your dad never learned is that you are not going to use your feelings as instructions.
Your values are the only thing you look to when deciding how you will behave.
That’s what mature masculinity looks like.
You can have feelings and just be with them without trying to avoid, dismiss, or stuff them down.
Until you can do this with yourself, you won’t be able to do this with your wife’s feelings.
Your wife craves a man who can be with her feelings and not try to fix or change them.
The 53 Traits Of Mature Masculinity
Clear
Calm
Direct
Non-reactive
Capable of danger, but controls it
Steady
Responds, but on his own time
Plays the long game
Is self-reliant
Can’t be emotionally swayed by others
Powerful
Stable
Discerning
Confident
Visionary
Wise
Purposeful
Driven
Physical
Courageous
Honorable
Decisive
Protective
Assertive
Focused
Consistent
Embraces Death
Knowledgeable
World-Wise
Mysterious
Intellectual
Truth Seeking
Mystic
Insightful
Detached from others’ reactions
Engineering
Sees probable outcomes
Vivid life force
Sensitive to the outside environment
Embodies pleasure without shame
Sensual
Compassionate
Empathetic
Creates connection
Reads people
Feel’s other’s pain
Sees potential
Lives from the heart
Is present
Trusts intention over outcome
Creates, invents, and innovates what he wants
Is on a mission
Isn’t urgent
Why Mature Masculinity Can Save Your Marriage
Marriages are not saved by jumping through hoops until she likes you again.
Every romantic relationship (regardless of gender) requires one person who is in the masculine spectrum and one who is in the feminine spectrum.
Your wife is incapable of feeling soft, affectionate, nurturing, receptive, submissive, or sexually turned on unless you are behaving as a mature, masculine man.
Once you are that man, relax and let the law of attraction do all the work.
How You Can Gain The 53 Traits Of Mature Masculinity
My YouTube critic was correct.
Fast cars and golf won’t be on our agenda as we develop your masculinity.
When I teach you my masculine confidence framework, I help you cut the blue wire to your triggers and insecurities.
I ask you questions so you can see the core beliefs that make you a slave to your emotions.
I help you create a frame built from values that you would take a bullet for.
I totally understand why you want to get your wife back. You care about her. You love her. And you go to bed feeling gutted she isn’t in your arms anymore. This article debunks 3 online myths about “getting your ex back” with brutal honesty. Keep reading or watch the following video to gain clarity about what works and what’s all smoke and hot air.
How To Get Your Wife Back With Honesty (3 Myths Busted)
Debunking Myths On How To Get Your Wife Back
Let’s pull out the shotgun and eliminate a few misconceptions running feral on the internet.
Myth 1: You can save your marriage even if your wife doesn’t want to.
I’ve been engaging with thousands of men in troubled relationships worldwide for years, and this is unheard of.
Yes, you can do self-improvement even if she doesn’t want to.
Sure, you can invite her to join a new standard of interacting in the relationship.
What’s self-evident is that until SHE decides she wants the marriage to work, fighting for the marriage fails nearly every time.
What really works is LETTING GO of the marriage and accepting that if she doesn’t want to be married to you, she is free to go.
I’m not advocating that you should file for divorce, but I am saying you shouldn’t try to resist it.
Let go of:
Needing her to give you certainty
Needing her to give you affection
Needing her to love you again
Needing her to stay for the kids
Needing her to see how much she stands to lose
By letting go, she no longer feels burdened by your NEEDS.
Needs stink.
Needs push her away.
Be ok and let go.
Myth 2: Opening up more to your wife will bring you closer together.
This is the kind of advice you’ll hear from women and wiki pages on how to improve relationships.
Digging everything out from under the rug so you can identify your attachment styles and childhood traumas can be equally as unproductive.
In the therapy world, it’s called “low-mood therapy” when you try to focus on everything “wrong” with the relationship.
Despite many women claiming this would have closed the gulf between her and her husband in years past, only about 5% of women have done enough personal development to handle a man’s raw vulnerability.
For the rest of us in relationships with the remaining 95% of women, we need to trust that having a support system outside the marriage is what works best.
If you don’t believe me, click HERE to read an excerpt by researcher/author Brene Brown.
Let your wife do more talking so SHE feels connected.
Men open up through affection and intimacy, not by talking about the past.
Your wife is the opposite.
She needs to get everything off her chest, or she won’t feel affectionate enough to give you the intimacy you need to feel close and bonded with her.
What she shares doesn’t need to be fixed, it only needs to be heard.
If you react, get triggered, or defend, divorce is in your cards, brother.
Myth 3: “No contact” makes her want you.
I bring this one up all the time.
Yes, when dating, “absence makes the heart grow fonder“.
In a long-term relationship, your absence just feels like relief.
I think every man’s wife or girlfriend, at some point, has said, “Is sex all you think about? It feels like a misunderstanding… a booby trap… a negative assault on a positive thing. Well, keep reading. I’ll show how to defuse your partner’s landmine questions.
She Said, “Is Sex All You Think About?” – How To Respond
“Is Sex All You Think About?”
Make no apology for being male!
Reflect on the history of humanity spanning thousands of years.
Since the beginning, women have been attracted to men with a sex drive.
She’s been love-sick for the man who gives her children.
Ladies have chased men simply because they are men.
Thanks to men’s insatiable drive for physical intimacy, the human race has not gone extinct.
How cool is that?
When a woman says to me, “Is sex all you think about?” I smile and say, yup!
Sex opens a man’s heart.
It makes him care.
Sex is the portal through which men gain emotional connection and bonding.
This is how we’re supposed to be wired; there is nothing wrong with it!
With annoyance, your partner might say, “Is sex all you think about?”
Women are a hurricane of emotions, ideas, creativity, and life.
Her feminine chaos of feelings needs your strong emotional framework.
That framework feels weak if her complaints bring out your defensiveness.
Online influencer Teal Swan wrote a great article on masculine containment if you want more information on what it means to have a masculine frame.
Being a woman’s husband isn’t too far off from being her father.
Some women reject this masculine frame and become her own man.
These masculine ladies won’t feel sexual polarity with men who are strong, secure, clear-thinking, driven, or unapologetic.
The reason is simple: she doesn’t need a man.
Sadly, a woman stuck in her masculine will be riddled with tension, exhaustion, frustration, loneliness, and burnout.
Women tend to be softer and feminine when YOU stay in your masculine energy.
Being the man you need to be is the only thing you can control.
How To Be A Secure Man When She Says, “Is Sex All You Think About?”
You can transform from being a guy who rattles off an 18-point logic list when your partner rolls her eyes to becoming a man of inner confidence and charisma, who wears a slight smirk even on rainy days.
To be a woman’s frame, you first need to have your OWN frame.
That’s what I’m teaching men how to do.
Q: If my wife loves me, shouldn’t she want sex with me?
A: The warmth and affection a man feels for a woman he loves largely revolves around his sexual attraction for her.
Feminine will drop subtle clues when she wants to have sex.
You might be totally missing those cues.
Q: My wife always rejects me when I try to initiate sex.
A: Imagine your wife has 3 lights on her forehead (red, yellow, green).
If you get rejected every time you initiate sex, it means you are initiating when her light is red.
If she’s down to cuddle but rejects you if you try to touch her anywhere else, it’s because her light is yellow.
I haven’t been rejected for sex in many years because I only initiate sex when her light is green.
Learn to read her body.
If you don’t feel her receptivity, STOP.
Trying to turn her on will fail until you build a stronger emotional connection.
Q: I’m afraid that if I stop initiating sex, our marriage will go sexless.
A: Some men believe sex is like pizza.
The saying goes, “bad pizza is better than no pizza”.
But I’m here to tell you that you will NEVER have good pizza unless you stop eating bad pizza.
Show yourself respect for what you deserve and stop settling for less than that.
If your marriage goes sexless because you won’t settle for anything less than passionate, loving, intimate sex, that gives you clarity about whether your wife is the kind of woman who deserves your awesome sexuality.
Don’t assume it’s all your wife’s fault.
If you are not being the masculine energy to your wife’s emotions, she won’t feel attraction that opens her body.
When you feel unloved, it’s tempting to pout, get angry, or blame feminism. It’s hard when your love tank is running on fumes. If that’s you, let’s take a hard look at your options. There are some mistakes men tend to make when they feel unloved that only push love further away.
Rekindling Affection: 2 Mistakes Men Make When Feeling Unloved
Take The Focus Off Her If You Feel Unloved
Taking the focus off your wife might sound illogical.
If your wife makes you feel unloved, shouldn’t she step up and be more loving?
You miss her flirty looks and admiration.
Her touch makes you feel special.
But complaining or demanding love doesn’t create love.
You can’t control your wife to make her sweeter and more loving.
Exerting stress, anxiety, complaints, and despair towards things outside your control is a lose-lose.
I get it.
Love & affection feel amazing!
But when the morning cuddles stop, and you feel unloved, you’re suddenly reliant on your own love.
You’re stepping out of your manly power when you lose sleep, agonize, and bang your head on the wall over stuff you have no control over!
This concept isn’t new.
The stoics of old like Marcus Aurelius warned that things outside your control are things you shouldn’t worry about.
How your wife feels is 100% outsideyour control.
I know what your man brain is thinking…“If we fix our issues, she’ll desire me again!”
No brother, “fixing issues” has never saved a marriage… but “fixing” your own insecurities can!
YOU are always 100% in YOUR control.
Spending large amounts of mental, emotional, and physical energy over your wife’s lack of desire will do nothing for improvement.
In fact, the guy who is most attractive to your wife is the guy who isn’t attached to specific outcomes.
A man who complains about his job, wife, government, lack of sex, or anything outside his control is a powerless man.
Her attraction is awakened by a man who maintains his power by not playing the victim.
If You Feel Unloved, Focus On What’s In Your Control
Directing your focus, thoughts, energy, and time towards something only within your zone of influence drains you.
Your love tank is already low.
It’s time to fill it.
Not from her, but by engaging in things that ENERGIZE you.
Things that put you in a better mood and make you happy.
No amount of influence will ever control someone else 100%.
Humans are not robots.
Other people have their own brains and end up doing what they want.
This one is sticky since sometimes you can influence someone to be different.
This is more the exception than the rule, though.
If you apply massive amounts of mental, emotional, and physical energy trying to influence others to be what you want, you’re putting yourself at their mercy.
It’s not pleasant when you feel unloved, but you need to think like a CREATOR (the opposite of a victim).
There are some rules of attraction you should know about.
Want love? Be loving.
Want respect? Then respect.
Want trust? Then trust.
Your marriage reaches a stalemate if you wait for her to stop making you feel unloved.
How To Get Your Mojo Back
Did the sun ever complain, chase you down, or demand attention for its sunsets to be attractive?
Has the sun ever postponed an amazing sunset because nobody gave it appreciation?
No, the sun is just doing what it does, and at some point, a bystander looks up and says, “Wow, that’s an amazing sunset!”
This is what you become when you stop attaching to outcomes and only focus on what’s in your zone of control.
Things like maintaining happiness right to the end, money, and living an unchained life appear when you pour as much energy as possible into things 100% inside your control.
This kind of man steps into his full power by no longer keeping others accountable for his happiness or the shine he puts off.
And that’s dam attractive – the opposite of chasing love!
95% of men choose not to focus on what’s directly inside their control because doing so requires a hard look at their “ya buts”.
Ya but, if I ask for sex, she’ll reject me
Ya but, if I change jobs, I’ll lose my retirement
Ya but, I can’t open my marriage and have sex with other women, my wife will hate me
Ya but, I can’t move, my kids have friends here
Those “Ya buts” are what confident men choose to face when life isn’t providing what they want.
Everything you have in life you’ve chosen.
You chose your wife…You chose your home…You chose your car.
When those things are frustrating, you’re living with what YOU chose.
You can always choose a NEW response, attitude, mindset, or tone.
You can make NEW choices when you face your “Ya buts.“
A man who remains unrattled by focusing on what’s in his control is no wimp and is very attractive to women!
The saying is true, “You have to let her go to get her back.”
REALLY let her go, I might add.
This sounds so paradoxical when you feel unloved.
Everything in you wants to tell her to get her shit together.
But that’s not love, it’s desperation.
If you’re struggling to be the kind of man who operates in his zone of control or has been limiting his life with“ya buts,” then reach out.
My coaching is exactly what you need to rewire your brain so you can attract what you want.
