If your wife never wants sex, there is an attraction problem, not a performance problem. Sure, hormones and life stages can have an effect, but your wife is a sexual person when she feels attraction. You’re about to read two stories. They will help you understand how attraction works in a long-term relationship.
Emergency Video For Husbands Not Having Intimate Sex
Bass, Sunshine, Mosquitoes, and Sex…
A fly just flew in through my front door.
There’s a rainstorm brewing outside.
Flies are extra clingy in this weather, especially this one.
It’s landed on my arm and wiggled into my hair several times.
It won’t leave me alone.
I want to kill it.
I feel my whole body closing up as I get angry.
It’s buzzing on my head, and I’m ready for war.
If your wife never wants sex, don’t be a fly.
Your horniness can feel annoying when it’s buzzing all over her, trying to “get some”.
Her body closes, and she can’t get aroused.
A mature man understands that his horniness is his to manage.
Your horniness (along with your emotions) are not your wife’s responsibility to take care of.
Don’t agree?
You can have your own opinion.
You might say, “It’s a wife’s responsibility to take care of her husband’s sexual needs”.
Keep that belief, watch intimacy dry up, or keep reading.
Don’t Be A Mosquitoe If Your Wife Never Wants Sex
We talked about flies.
Now, let’s talk about mosquitoes.
I think you know where this is going, lol.
Here’s the story…
Years back, I hiked to a remote lake before sunrise.
I planned to bass fish from shore… cast a few lines in, take a swim, and soak up some sun.
The sun rose, and the bass started biting!
Then something else started biting.
Mosquitoes.
Millions of them.
I tried to cover up every inch of my body.
My bare hand on the reel got slaughtered.
Did I want to rip my shirt off and go for a swim?
Hell no!
The sun was out and everything.
But not a shred of me wanted my skin exposed to those blood-sucking little bastards.
Back to your wife never wanting sex… are you poking her like a mosquito, wondering why she keeps her skin covered?
Your wife always has the proper juices to desire physical intimacy with you.
But, when you pelter her with your needs, you’re shooting your own foot.
The need to be right
The need to get off
The need to know why
The need to be chosen
The need to have her get clear
These needs feel like a thousand mosquitoes under the sheets.
Any wonder her body isn’t responding to your touch?
How To Be A Man Your Wife Can’t Get Enough Of
Seduction tactics and advice for attracting women for dates will not work on your wife!
There is a proven process for being the kind of man who is attractive in a long-term relationship vs dating.
Discussing why your wife acts grossed out during sex is a vulnerable, sensitive topic. I’m going to get graphic! This article is specifically for the husband whose wife has grown repulsed by him finishing during sex. No man wants to make his wife feel repulsed by him. I know firsthand what it’s like. Feeling isolated. Feeling like there’s something bad or wrong with you. Let me help you see things differently so you know what to do about it.
When Your Wife Shames You For Ejaculating: 2 Causes (Explicit)
Sam Used To Be In “Lover’s Paradise”
Sam’s wife, Heather, lay comfortably naked on a fuzzy blanket by the fireplace.
Her skin was soft and warm from soaking in the bath.
As Sam’s hands spread lotion up her freshly shaved legs, her her eyes closed.
Starting at her toes and working his way up, he could feel her relax.
Heather’s legs spread open.
Gently, he rubbed the sides of her hips, then pushed his palm from her lower tummy straight up to her chest, then back down.
She arched.
Her curves shadowed by the flickering fire.
Sam placed his palms on either side of her belly button, holding steady pressure.
He could see she was getting wet.
Sam brushed her labia as he slid his hands back down the insides of her legs.
Suddenly, her legs wrapped around him, and she pulled him in closer.
Heather’s hands unbuttoned Sam’s pants.
She looked at him with begging eyes and pleaded, “I want to feel you inside me”.
A while later, their passionate writhing had Sam cumming.
“Yes! Yes!” Heather moaned.
“I want all of you, every inch!”
Heather used her fingers to spread his juices all over herself in ecstasy.
She smiled and said, “I love having you all over me.”
Now, Sam’s Wife Acts Grossed Out During Sex
Imagine the same scenario as before.
But now candles are burning, and soft music is playing.
Sam massages his wife’s muscles into jello.
He touches her lips with his finger and leans in for a kiss.
As their lips touch, tears run down Heather’s cheeks.
“I feel nothing,” she said, then got up and walked out of the room.
The next weekend, Sam and Heather were at it again.
They both lay in bed kissing and cuddling.
As desire grew, Sam slipped his hard manhood inside her.
They arched together.
Soon, both Heather and Sam climaxed together.
After Sam came, Heather’s face held a look of disgust.
“I’ll be leaking your juices for the rest of the day… This is GROSS!” she snapped.
Heather rolled out of bed to shower.
When she came back, she crawled into bed facing the wall with her back to Sam and went to sleep.
This was happening more and more lately.
The month prior, Sam had pulled out and finished on her chest.
She had the same reaction then.
Why was his wife so grossed out during sex?
She used to LOVE him finishing on her.
What changed?
Was he doing something wrong?
The answer is both simple and complex.
Your Wife Acts Grossed Out During Sex Because She’s Not Turned On
Women’s sexuality “opens” and “closes” (This is not because of a wrong sex position or lube).
This is the simple thing to understand.
Men’s desire for sex goes up and down depending on sexual frequency.
There’s one constant to be relied on with men: The longer it’s been since he’s had sex, the more strongly he can feel desire.
Women are not wired this way. A “closed” Woman can go decades without desire.
When a woman is “closed,” your morning wood makes you a pervert in her opinion.
If she’s “opened,” she can’t keep her hands out of your pants.
If your wife used to love when you finished (and now hates it), it’s a window into where SHE is.
This is where it gets a little more complex.
Your Wife Acts Grossed Out During Sex When She’s “Closed”
In her book, “Open Her,” Karen Brody describes 7 masculine archetypes that “open” women.
She talks about two ways women lose respect and sexual desire for a man.
These two ways are:
Going for sex after your wife hasn’t been treating you well.
Proceeding with sex when the first initial touch or kiss was obviously not well received by her.
If you go for sex after your wife mistreats you, it shows low self-worth.
See yourself as the prize.
Don’t give yourself to her when she’s been nasty to you.
If you do, she’ll grow to resent your touch.
She’ll think to herself, “He has no standards… why should I even give effort to be a better wife?”
When your wife acts grossed out during sex, it’s because you missed the early signals that said STOP.
Did she wince when you put your hand on her arm?
Did she turn her face when you went in for the kiss?
Was she complaining about a headache?
These are all signs she is NOT in the mood.
See how your wife acts grossed out during sex because she wasn’t desiring it in the first place?
Here’s how to know if your marriage can be saved: If your wife has only experienced a version of you who provided for the family and wanted sex, then your marriage has hope! She hasn’t fully experienced masculine/feminine polarity with you yet. That polarity is the secret to attraction. And shoveling the sidewalk or changing oil in her car wasn’t that. This article explains 4 ways your marriage will fail without masculine/feminine polarity.
4 Reasons Your Marriage Will Fail Without Masculine/Feminine Polarity
1. Without Masculine/Feminine Polarity, You Become Roommates
Regardless of your gender, you feel attraction to what polarizes you.
Opposites create polarity.
Imagine a soft, sweet, affectionate woman who smells like strawberries.
Her entire body is hairless, and she giggles in a high voice.
Sound attractive?
Opposites attract.
The idea of masculine/feminine polarity is not a new concept.
There’s no vaccine for the roommate wife syndrome. Most couples think they are immune on their wedding day. But a decade or two later, the symptoms emerge. Loss of sexual chemistry… ghosts in passing.. the household is running, but your wife feels like a friend, not a lover. This article helps you understand male and female sexuality so you can bring the spark back.
Roommate Wife: How To Change (For Men’s Eyes Only)
How Men Sexually Desire Women
Roommates don’t have sex.
That’s the biggest symptom of roommate wife syndrome.
You are best friends
You get along great.
But sexual intimacy is what separates lovers from roommates.
