You don’t need to be married long before you start to notice sex to your wife means something different than it does to you. Here’s what you need to know if you want to keep your differences from creating frustration.
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For Women, Sex Is A Place To Get To
This means sex is a natural extension for women when OTHER things have already built up for her.
- She feels relaxed
- She feels connected
- She feels desired for what makes her unique
- She feels safe
- She feels an ENERGY between the two of you (polarity)
She needs to feel these things first before her body will soften to your touch.
For Men, Sex Is A Place To Come From
For men, our bodies aren’t even capable of feeling some things unless there’s sex, so that’s where we want to start.
Sex is what opens our hearts so that we can feel connected, close, bonded, affectionate, and caring.
A man won’t feel fully desired to his core by his wife unless he’s desired sexually by her.
Even the most brute, stone-cold man’s heart is softened by a woman’s affectionate sexual touch.
That’s why sex to your wife means something different – her heart is not softened by it like yours is.
Dare I say, your wife’s heart will harden if she has sex without feeling the desire first.
And for you, any anxiety or insecurity you feel about yourself will be amplified when sex is off the table.
Sex To Your Wife Means Something Different Because She Is Feminine
I ignored my wife’s voice for years when she used to complain about how I would go straight for sex, skipping the feelings she said she needed first.
I was convinced she would get in the mood once in the act.
I assumed she was like me, where sex would create the feelings we both wanted to feel together.
Many men have learned the hard way that doing this for years will completely shut down your wife’s ability to be physically intimate with you.
- She will grow to resent your touch.
- She loses respect.
- She will close off, hoping to discourage you from making advances.
I’m largely assuming sex to your wife means something different based on my own experiences.
What has your experience been?
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